Embracing Culture Shock: South Korea
by Camila Vazquez
While my study abroad experience in NYU Madrid last spring introduced me to life beyond home, my time in South Korea has taken me further out of my comfort zone–and into a world of new perspectives. After spending nearly a month in Seoul, I’d like to share my experiences as an exchange student at Yonsei University and encourage you to explore opportunities like Stern’s International Business Exchange Program (IBEX).
During my sophomore year at NYU Madrid, I was surrounded by familiar faces and the comforting environment of an NYU institution. Despite being abroad, the setting made adapting and adjusting to the new lifestyle easier. However, my decision to study at Yonsei University promised an entirely different experience: an immersion into Asian culture that would challenge every expectation I had.
The Initial Shock
Arriving in Seoul, I was immediately struck by the feeling of being a foreigner. Unlike more subtle cultural differences in Europe or America, here I was unmistakably seen as an outsider. Having been raised in New York City, receiving stares and comments were interactions I was not anticipating. Each encounter, although sometimes surprising, has gradually enriched my understanding of Korea.
Daily life here also comes with its own set of challenges and possibilities. For instance, the public transportation system in Seoul is remarkably quiet compared to the lively bustle of New York City’s subways and buses. I quickly learned the importance of using a T-Money card and refilling it at the convenience store. And, of course, I’ve been on a culinary adventure, trying everything from spicy tteokbokki at a Hongdae street stall to sweet, comforting hoddeok!
Despite taking basic Korean courses before my semester at Yonsei, the language barrier remains an ongoing challenge. Still, I remain open-minded and committed to learning and embracing local customs such as bowing, indirect communication, and the importance of age hierarchy. It’s heartening to see how Koreans go out of their way to communicate in English and help bridge the gap.
Navigating the Differences
I quickly realized that once you embrace being a foreigner, adapting to local customs and cultural norms becomes easier. Unlike Europe or the United States, South Korea has its system for Google Translate, Maps, and even messaging! Using apps like Papago, Naver Maps, and KakaoTalk has allowed me to immerse myself fully in the culture. Papago has been a lifesaver when ordering from Korean menus and communicating with locals.
Embracing the Change & Building Community
I’ve also been finding comfort in routines. As an avid coffee drinker, I was excited and looking forward to South Korea’s vibrant coffee culture. With cafes on practically every corner–from cozy spots serving hazelnut coldbrews and banana milk lattes to 24-hour study cafes offering delightful treats like saltbreads–I’ve found a safe space to relax and recharge. I even discovered convenience stores are everywhere (including in the Yonsei Sinchon dorm basement!) and stocked with delicious and affordable snacks.
Before arriving, I was anxious about making friends and building a community at Yonsei. However, I have been fortunate enough to have met lovely people during these past few weeks through Buddy Events, classes, and student clubs. Having a support system through my friends who have shared experiences has made it easier to adapt here; however, embracing student life is a great way to meet other exchange students.
Joining clubs like Yonsei’s English Society (YES) and Yonsei’s Korean Reunification Club has not only improved my Korean and deepened my cultural insights but also allowed me to connect with passionate individuals–some of whom are even North Korean defectors dedicated to bridging divides.
Embracing the Experience
South Korea has already sparked significant personal growth in me. I’ve developed a profound appreciation for its rich culture and traditions, and every day brings new lessons in adaptability and global understanding. While culture shock can be intimidating, it is also the catalyst for developing a broader, more compassionate worldview.
Note for Future Exchange Students:
Step out of your comfort zone. Every new interaction or experience may seem daunting at first, but embracing these challenges opens up a world of possibilities. A little fear is far better than staying in a bubble. Embrace the journey, and you will discover a version of yourself you never knew existed. :)
